Adventurers , imagine tying him up and riding him as if he were your horse, you can do with your man everything you want since he will not be able to touch you. You can for example get on and fuck him at the pace you like, stopping just before he comes, making the sex BDSM session last even longer and making him beg you to continue making love to him.
If you are less daring or the one who is going to be tied is not entirely sure how he will feel, you can try doing it by holding one hand the wrists of your partner together and above the head while you make love, this will serve as training.
Instead of taking it as a sadomasochism session, take bondage as a simple game where one of you will be tied up. If he is still nervous, you can tie him with toilet paper, so he is sure that he can be released simply by pulling.
Some tips to keep in mind
As it has been observed, BDSM session is a complex practice, therefore, the limits are not far behind, not all limits are the same, Elisa points out that there are soft limits and there are hard limits. The hard limits are the ones that will never be realized, these are prohibited. They can be intervention in other contexts of the practitioner's life -even for those who experience it as a lifestyle- such as family, work, economy and friends will never be able to order me in those areas as such, you are not going to call your mother. You're going to call her in 15 days, why not, because that's poop, you don't touch ... friends. All the friendly relationships that I have years with. None of that can touch(Elisa). On the other hand, soft limits refer to those that you do not rule out from the beginning, it may be uncomfortable but they are not a problem, given this Octavio says that you can take them little by little.
If you are less daring or the one who is going to be tied is not entirely sure how he will feel, you can try doing it by holding one hand the wrists of your partner together and above the head while you make love, this will serve as training.
Instead of taking it as a sadomasochism session, take bondage as a simple game where one of you will be tied up. If he is still nervous, you can tie him with toilet paper, so he is sure that he can be released simply by pulling.
Some tips to keep in mind
- No matter what you do, make sure it's a safe game
- Do not use tight knots if the tied person resists
- When you are tying it, make sure it is snug but comfortable by tucking a finger between the rope and the wrist or ankle before tying the knot.
- Always have scissors or a handcuff key on hand in case of an emergency or panic.
- Never have someone tied up for more than half an hour, especially if they are a smoker or have circulation problems.
- If you use jaws , make sure the person can breathe and make some noise.
As it has been observed, BDSM session is a complex practice, therefore, the limits are not far behind, not all limits are the same, Elisa points out that there are soft limits and there are hard limits. The hard limits are the ones that will never be realized, these are prohibited. They can be intervention in other contexts of the practitioner's life -even for those who experience it as a lifestyle- such as family, work, economy and friends will never be able to order me in those areas as such, you are not going to call your mother. You're going to call her in 15 days, why not, because that's poop, you don't touch ... friends. All the friendly relationships that I have years with. None of that can touch(Elisa). On the other hand, soft limits refer to those that you do not rule out from the beginning, it may be uncomfortable but they are not a problem, given this Octavio says that you can take them little by little.